In brief
- Most forums need five to eight roles. The moderator does not carry it alone — the design distributes responsibility so every member feels invested in the outcome.
- Roles like Scheduler and Retreat Planners are often overlooked but matter enormously: a forum lives or dies on whether it actually meets, and the retreat is usually the deepest meeting of the year.
- Additional roles — Constitution Guardian, Process point person, Nudge — are useful for some forums, not required for all. Treat them as tools you pick up when you need them.
- Over the life of a forum, most members take a turn as moderator. The experience of running it changes how you participate.
The moderator does not carry it alone. The design of forum distributes responsibility across the group so that no single person burns out, and so that every member develops a stake in the outcome. What follows is what that looks like in practice.
The roles a forum actually uses
Moderator
Runs the meeting and holds the shape of the forum's year. Chosen by the members, often a volunteer, usually for a year or two. The work isn't to do everything — it's to see that everything gets done, and to keep their own attention on the room rather than the logistics. Over the life of a forum, most members take a turn.
Assistant Moderator
The moderator's backup, and usually the next moderator. Runs the meeting when the moderator is away, and learns the role by standing close to it. Having one is how a forum avoids a scramble when the term ends.
Scheduler
Gets the meetings on the calendar and keeps them there. A forum lives or dies on whether it actually meets, and the scheduler is the reason it does.
Treasurer
Keeps the shared money straight: the group meal, the dinner, the DoorDash order, and the costs that gather around the annual retreat.
Retreat Planners
Own the annual offsite — the one meeting that does the most for the group. They handle the venue, the arc of the agenda, and the logistics, so the retreat is somewhere to go deep. A real job, usually shared by two.
Timekeeper
Watches the clock and works with the moderator when someone is running over. Rotates, often meeting to meeting. Whether to let it run — when someone is in the middle of something real — is usually the moderator's call.
Scribe
Keeps what the group wants to remember: a decision, a commitment, a line worth holding onto. During a presentation that isn't being recorded, the scribe may take notes for the presenter — and may catch parking-lot items, something raised in passing that's worth returning to later. Rotates, light touch. A forum isn't taking minutes, it's keeping a thread.
AI point person
Worth having. Owns the question of how the group uses AI well: what's genuinely useful, what to be wary of, what other forums are trying. Brings back the occasional "here's what worked for me" instead of a policy. The value is staying current together rather than each member sorting it out alone.
Additional roles
These are additional roles that some forums use.
Constitution Guardian
Keeps the group's written agreement from going stale. Most forums write a constitution early and never look at it again. The guardian brings it back when something it covers comes up, and prompts a revisit when the group has quietly outgrown it.
Process point person
A light hand on "are we doing what we said we'd do?" Notices when the group slides into advice-giving or wanders off, and names it. In some forums this belongs to everyone rather than one person. Treat the role as a backstop, not a deputy.
Nudge
The gentle accountability role, mostly aimed at the moderator and retreat planners. Did the agenda go out? Is the venue booked? Did everyone answer the survey? Not enforcement, just a warm check-in that keeps things from slipping. Quietly one of the most useful.
Per-meeting roles
These rotate by meeting rather than by year.
Presenter
The member who brings a challenge, question, or situation to the group for experience sharing. Presenting requires pre-work — typically a meeting with the coach beforehand to clarify purpose and the core feeling underneath the topic. Each member presents at least once a year; the rotation keeps the group from orbiting the same few voices.
Presenter Coach
Meets with the presenter before the meeting to help them prepare and focus. During the presentation itself, the coach leads the communication starter — a brief question that connects the group to the emotional territory the presenter will explore. Often filled by the person who presented last, which creates a natural cycle: you present, then you coach, and coaching so soon after your own vulnerability sharpens your listening.
How many members
Most forums run with eight to ten members. Fewer than eight, and a couple of absences leave the room thin. More than ten, and there isn't enough time for everyone to be heard at depth in one meeting.
But the number breathes. A forum of eight can be at five within a year -- one member relocates, another gets swallowed by a company acquisition, a third decides the experience isn't for them and steps away. Five members who show up fully is a real forum. It can also run to eleven: someone takes a two-year posting in Europe, the group brings in a new member to stay strong, and when the traveler returns and wants back in, the forum decides the eleventh seat is worth keeping.
Headcount isn't what holds a forum together. Presence and commitment are. Eight to ten is where most groups land; five to eleven is where forums still work.
For how groups handle members leaving and joining, see When members come and go on the constitution page.
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